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A wedding is a sacrament. The couple creates their own little church before God. The two agree that they are ready to walk with each other together all their lives, knowing sorrows and joys. As you can see, the rite is not only touching, but also very responsible. That is why special requirements are imposed on the wedding dress for the wedding and the image of the bride as a whole.

What it is?

A wedding dress is a special dress chosen by the bride for a church ceremony. There are a number of rules by which an outfit is considered appropriate or inappropriate. The main thing - you need to remember that the outfit is designed to emphasize the modesty, decency and chastity of the bride.

How to choose a wedding dress (rules)

Portal for brides Wedding.ws has collected the rules according to which a dress will be considered appropriate for a wedding in the Orthodox Church. The bride should choose:

  • namely the dress (a trouser suit is strictly not allowed);
  • restrained dress that emphasizes the modesty of the bride;
  • it is desirable that the skirt be on the floor (the skirt of the minimum allowable length should cover the knees);
  • shoulders, back, décolleté, arms to the elbow should be covered (at least with a veil);
  • the head of the bride must be covered (veils are enough);
  • it is desirable that the dress be white, although delicate pastel colors are allowed;
  • a wedding dress can be decorated, but within reason;
  • a train is allowed, however small or clip-on (a train is more of a Catholic than an Orthodox tradition; besides, a crown will be held over you);
  • a puffy dress is allowed, but it should not be huge, again due to the requirement for modesty of the image of the bride and for practical reasons (so either remove the rings or prefer A-line models with flared or flowing skirts).



What outfit is not suitable for a church wedding?

Wedding dresses cannot be too revealing or extravagant. So the seductive mermaid style will have to be abandoned. Mini dresses and some midi dresses that show off the knees are not allowed. Also, the Orthodox Church will in no case approve trousers on the bride. According to popular beliefs, the outfit should be solid, i.e. the top and bottom of the outfit must be sewn. Therefore, many refuse skirt suits. A “richly” decorated dress with numerous frills, draperies, rhinestones and other decorative elements, as well as catchy accessories on the bride, are condemned. Yet the main thing in the bride - the inner self-esteem.

Which model to choose?

The dress should be modest and meet many criteria. But modest doesn't mean boring. We have selected for you the most interesting models of wedding dresses with photos.

A closed dress is one of the best options for a sacrament. On the one hand, it satisfies all the requirements of the Orthodox Church. On the other hand, the bride will be satisfied with his style, because a closed dress is one of the modern trends. In addition, the back, arms and décolleté area can be covered not with a dense fabric, but with exquisite lace and thin veils. As a result, closed wedding dresses are elegant, sophisticated and really stylish.



For a wedding in the Orthodox Church, you can choose a dress in a straight cut or A-line style. Classic is always in fashion. In addition, such dresses, as a rule, are sewn from dense high-quality satin and do not require an abundance of decorative elements.


For summer weddings, pay attention to dresses with flowing skirts in the Greek or Empire style. They are not lush, so they will not shock the audience in the church, but on the other hand, their lightness and numerous folds will make the image romantic and tender. However, most likely, you will have to choose a cape or bolero for the dress, because. the upper part of such dresses is usually open.


A wedding dress gives you a reason to pay attention to interesting models with sleeves. Long, three-quarters, "bat" - here wedding salons offer a lot of options. A dress with short sleeves is also possible, especially in the hot season and in combination with a long veil that can cover the arms. The only thing is to coordinate such a dress in advance with the priest.


An interesting option is a dress in the style of the 50s. They are stylish and in all respects suitable for a wedding. The length of the skirt is below the knees, the skirt is moderately puffy, the back and shoulders are closed, often this dress has sleeves, and if not, then the dress will perfectly complement the bolero.


Simple dresses are also suitable for a wedding, for example, evening dresses, casual dresses or a modest outfit on the second day of the wedding. Such models are relevant if you decide to get married after several years of family life. The church requires a couple to be spiritually ready to marry before God. And compliance with the rules regarding the outfit is a consequence. And certainly the church does not oblige the wearing of a solemn dress.

For an older woman, the rules about choosing a wedding dress remain unchanged. So, older women can choose a dress of one of the models listed above. In addition, in your case, colored dresses are quite acceptable, the main thing is that the shade is not bright.


Wedding accessories

A veil (long or short), a headdress (veil, hat) or a scarf is a must-have accessory for a bride who goes to church. The image of the bride is perfectly complemented by special wedding capes: sewn boleros and a veil with a hood. They are made of lace or translucent fabrics, are easy to put on and look very beautiful. The wedding attire of the bride will be harmoniously complemented by a stole, bolero, fur cape, jacket, especially if you want an open wedding dress. From jewelry, give preference to laconic earrings and a bracelet. Considering that a cross will hang around the neck, the necklace will have to be abandoned. Although a thin chain goes well with modest pearl beads, the website www.svadebka.ws believes.

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A wedding dress is a little different from a traditional wedding attire, there are only a few restrictions that are easy to follow when preparing for the sacrament of the wedding. Firstly, a wedding dress can be either classic white or any other, but always in light colors, for example, blue, beige, etc. The appearance in the church in purple, and any other outfit, of a dark tone is categorically not welcome, which, in principle, few people can come up with. Secondly, the length of the dress should not be higher than the knees of the bride, this is also due to the obligatory wedding tradition. As for the fabric from which the dress is sewn, there are no restrictions and conditions.

Everyone knows that a woman has no right to enter the church with her head uncovered, and the bride in this case is no exception. Therefore, the newlywed's head must necessarily be covered with either a veil or a stole, which is an accessory to the wedding attire. In addition, it is not forbidden to use a thin veil, a light scarf or a small hat to cover the head.

In tsarist Russia, there was no question of which dress to get married in, and which one to go to the registry office, since such state institutions simply did not exist then. Today, brides have a problem related to the fact that, according to church tradition, one cannot appear in a church in wedding dresses with too open shoulders and necklines, but you want to look sexy and charming in photos and videos taken at the registry office, which is difficult to achieve. posing for the camera in a "deaf" dress. What to do?

Some simply buy two dresses of the corresponding styles, but the costs are quite high and not every bride can afford this option. In this situation, the Orthodox Church came to the rescue as it is known for its tolerant and flexible attitude towards its parishioners.

The clergy went to meet the newlyweds who wanted to get married, and allowed, if the bride has only one dress, but quite frank, just cover the open areas of the body with something like a thin stole, scarf. Strongly open shoulders can be covered with a falling veil, which in the future the bride, at her discretion, can change for any other accessory, diadem or anything else. If the dress is sleeveless at all, then in order to hide bare arms, gloves should be worn, preferably up to the elbows. In a word, the main thing is that Orthodox traditions are observed in the church, and as you can see, this is not at all difficult to do.

Now a few notes on the topic. Today, dresses with long trains are often offered as wedding dresses, which are carried by children at the ceremony for the bride. You can get married in such a dress, but such a style has nothing to do with Orthodox traditions and came to us from Catholic Europe. It is customary to keep the wedding dress in which the sacrament of the wedding took place at home. It can neither be sold nor transferred to anyone for use - this is the tradition. But in general, it would be nice to talk with the priest or any other clergyman of the church in which you plan to hold the wedding ceremony before the wedding, and clarify all the nuances.

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Hello. Can you please tell me if the wedding dress can be sold? They signed and got married in it. I heard you can't sell veils and shoes. There is a lot of controversy about the dress. Thank you in advance

valentine

Valentine, you can do as you wish with the dress, with the veil, and with other items of your wedding wardrobe. There are no special church rules on this matter, and everything else is superstition or prejudice.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Hello! Father, tell me, please, is it permissible for a wedding dress, slightly covering the knees, and with sleeves above the elbow? Is it possible to get married on April 27th?

Nina

Nina, such “technical” moments, as well as the date of the wedding, must be discussed with the priest with whom you plan to get married. I think, however, it is unlikely that you will have time to agree on a wedding on April 27th.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Hello, tell me, we want to get married with my husband in what clothes should we get married? Can I rent a wedding dress? Thank you.

Milan

Hello Milana. Can be rented. The dress should be light, strict, without a neckline and with long sleeves. The man, of course, is in a classic suit.

Priest Alexander Beloslyudov

Good day! Please tell me, as far as I know, you can get married twice, and get married three times, but the third time without a wedding, is that so? My friend says that you can get married only once in your life, the second time will definitely be unhappy, God will not give happiness to a woman or a man if, after getting divorced, a person decides to start a family again, she made such a conclusion from her situation with marriage. Can a woman wear a white wedding dress if she is getting married or getting married for the third time? They say that in no case should you, otherwise you will be unhappy all your life, you can wear a dress of any color except white. And is it true that the groom cannot see the bride in a wedding dress before the wedding, otherwise the groom will be disappointed in the bride and the wedding dress cannot be put on just like that, for example, for a photo or something else? Or is it all fiction and superstition?

Ksenia

“About the white dress” - no comment, everything described is gross superstition. The Church blesses no more than three church marriages (which means weddings), there is no mention of registry offices in the canons at all. Another thing is that many now do not make sense to marry even once. Too frivolous. But if a person repents for the mistakes of his first marriage, becomes a Christian not just in words, his next marriage may well be happy and saving. There are enough examples.

Archpriest Maxim Khyzhiy

Good afternoon From my parents (unfortunately, they are no longer there), there were wedding candles, rings and my mother's wedding dress. Should these candles be lit, or just kept? Can you wash your wedding dress?

Marina

Marina. Wedding candles can be lit and stored - at your discretion. The wedding dress is also washable.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Hello, father. During the wedding, namely, when we walked around the lectern, I lagged behind my husband and the priest, and they went a little ahead. It's been almost six months, and it's unpleasant for me to remember everything. I don’t believe in omens, and there are no such omens. Every day I worry about my inattention. Are such incidents not uncommon during weddings?

Maria

Hello Maria! All this is just, let's say, "technical moments" associated with the splendor of clothing, and not related to the sacrament itself. It happens that witnesses step on the dress, and the veil falls to one side. Don't beat yourself up. Well, if thoughts do not give you rest at all, I advise you to confess.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Hello, I'm going to go to church for confession. I don't wear skirts, can I come in trousers, but put on a raincoat just below the knees?

Svetlana

Dear Svetlana, imagine that you came to a restaurant and said to the doorman at the entrance: I don’t wear evening suits, can I go into the hall in a padded jacket, overalls and tarpaulin boots? Each place has its own customary dress code. A cheap second-hand skirt costs about a hundred rubles, you can buy it especially for visiting the temple, I hope that you will come there more than once, but will visit the House of God more or less regularly. In addition, the dress and skirt make a woman so beautiful that they should be, at least in small quantities, in the wardrobe of any woman.

Archpriest Andrey Efanov

Hello! My husband and I got married on the day of marriage registration at the registry office, I was in a wedding dress. Can this dress be sold?

Elena

Elena, why can't you sell a wedding dress? If things are good and expensive, and you can get some money for them, then, of course, the dress, without any doubt, can be sold. Before you sell a dress, you need to sprinkle it with Holy water, as this must be done when changing the owner and when buying new things. In the prayer book there is a short prayer for the laity, and it is called "On the consecration of every thing", you can sprinkle the dress yourself, and then calmly sell it.

Hieromonk Viktorin (Aseev)

Hello, father! During her life, she gave her friend her dress, after some time she died suddenly. At the funeral, I saw that they were burying her in this dress! Her mother says that she didn’t know about it, and that it’s okay, because I gave him during my lifetime, and I was very scared! I don’t feel sorry for the dress at all, I’m afraid it doesn’t pose a danger to me? Then her mother gave me her clothes, can I wear them? I didn’t want to take it, again out of fear, but I couldn’t refuse. I know that the deceased friend would share with pleasure, and if she sees us, she does not mind. Can you please tell me what to do? Maybe my fears are just due to the great stress of losing a girlfriend, maybe I should go to church? Thank you in advance.

Elena

Yes, Elena, your fears are absolutely unfounded. Please put such superstitions out of your mind: firstly, they have nothing to do with reality, and, secondly, they simply darken life.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello, father! Please explain what is the reason for the rule that women wear skirts in the temple and what is not supposed to enter the temple in trousers? It is clear that each gender has its own clothes. But even the priests in churches do not go in trousers and jeans. And yet, what is the reason that women should enter with their heads covered, and men vice versa? I really want to know. Thank you.

Ludmila

Lyudmila, at the beginning, let's immediately separate the spiritual vestments worn by priests from the usual secular clothes worn by the laity - the fact that priests do not go to services in suits or shirts with jeans is not an argument here.
And about the need to wear clothes appropriate for the sex, it is said in the Holy Scriptures: "A woman should not wear men's clothes, and a man should not dress in a woman's dress, for everyone who does this is abominable before the Lord your God" (Deut. 22: 5).
Regarding the covered head of a woman during prayer, please read in the First Epistle of the Apostle Paul to the Corinthians, chapter 11, verses 1 to 19.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Hello. There is one question regarding traditions. I heard from friends that it is customary for unmarried girls to be buried in a wedding dress. Is there really such a tradition? What is it due to? Is she Orthodox? Thanks in advance for your reply.

Alexei

Dear Alexei, this tradition, in my opinion, is religiously neutral and simply expresses the grief of loved ones that the deceased did not experience the joys of marriage and motherhood. It is not necessary to introduce it in those areas where there is no such tradition, but it is also not worth fighting it if there is no superstition around this rite.

Archpriest Andrey Efanov

Good afternoon I have a question: in what clothes do women need to visit the Temple, in skirts or can they wear trousers? I recently began to visit the Temple myself and noticed that almost all women come in skirts, but there are also trousers and even tracksuits! Is there any dress code for visiting the Church, or maybe you can “run in” to the temple in a dressing gown (sorry for the sarcasm, father)?

Irina

Irina, in the times of the Old Testament, people were stoned to death for using clothes of the opposite sex. There were no trousers for women. In our godless, it must be said, times, both the clergy and bishops argue as follows: it is better to come to church in trousers than not to come at all because of trousers. But when attempts begin to "legitimize" this new type of clothing for women, the inflection begins here. A woman must dress in the clothes of her gender: a dress or a blouse with a skirt and have a headdress. It is pious, feminine, graceful, beautiful and holy. And moreover, it does not cause any temptation - and the temptation in the Church is unacceptable.

hegumen Nikon (Golovko)

Good afternoon Can you tell me, please, is it possible to sell the wedding dress in which you got married?

Tanya

Although the thought of this may cause superstitious fear, there are no prohibitions on this subject. On the contrary, sometimes pragmatism is the best cure for superstition.

Deacon Elijah Kokin

Hello, father! Please tell me, is it obligatory for a woman to wear a skirt to church? I always thought and believed that God first of all looks at his heart, so that it is open for communication, kind, filled with love, and what a person came in is up to him to decide. Am I thinking right? Thanks for the answer.

Evgenia

Hello Evgeniya! A person who just crosses the threshold of the temple finds himself in a world completely unknown to him, living according to his own rules, not always clear to the “newcomer”. Among the first rules that he gets acquainted with is the requirement for appearance. These requirements in an Orthodox church (the absence of a headdress for men, a skirt and a scarf for women, a modest and neat appearance for everyone) are known to almost everyone these days. To our contemporaries they seem outdated, testifying to a rigid, "illiberal" church thinking. "After all, God looks at the heart, and not at the appearance of a person!" they say. Church arguments seem unconvincing to them.
However, in the spiritual life of a Christian, everything matters: appearance, behavior, and inner disposition. And today, the requirements for appearance not only have not lost their significance, but have also acquired a new sound.
The Holy Scriptures say: "A woman should not wear men's clothes, and a man should not put on women's clothes, for everyone who does this is abominable before the Lord your God" (Deut. 22: 5). Such was the teaching of the Fathers of the Church: Tertullian, St. Cyprian of Carthage, St. Ambrose of Milan. Agree, because clothes should correspond to gender, age and place, and most importantly - to Christian self-consciousness.

Priest Vladimir Shlykov

Hello Father! Please tell me one question. When I buried my mother, I dressed her up in old and ugly clothes (unfortunately, I did not know about the customs), and now my conscience is tormenting me. I already bought a new beautiful outfit for her, but I don’t know what to do with it. Tell me how to be.

Natalia

Don’t worry, but it’s better to give a new dress to someone close to your mother or simply to those in need for a mention of her soul.

Deacon Elijah Kokin

I bought a wedding dress, white with red flowers, my husband's shirt is red. I heard that the priest can refuse to marry. Earlier in Rus', after all, young ladies in red dresses got married. Will they marry us now? I really want to get married.

Julia

Of course, the priest is unlikely to refuse the wedding because of the color of the dress, this is not specified anywhere. The main thing in the Wedding is not the color of the dress, but the very meaning of this Sacrament, which creates a new Christian family, you can find detailed information about it, including on our website, at the links http://site/Arhiv/??cid=2&id =264

Deacon Elijah Kokin

Hello, father! One question torments me. My ex-husband and I divorced and got married 2.5 years ago. We lived together for almost 12 years. For almost a year we have been in court because of the division of the joint house. I have experienced a lot during this time. I ask the Lord to enlighten him so that the ex-husband will stop doing evil to me. After the wedding, there was a dress and a ring. One day I decided to collect the rings he gave me and take them to church. I asked them to decorate the Miraculous Icon of the Kazan Mother of God with them, which I love very much and feel help from her. And then I accidentally heard that you can’t give your wedding ring to anyone, especially the Mother of God, otherwise I allegedly “married” her. I want a family again, I love one person. What do i do? Did I do something wrong? And what to do with the dress? I tried to sell it, but for six months - not a single person who wanted to buy it ...

Natalia

Hello, Natalia! I think that if you yourself think well, you will understand that you will not succeed in "marrying" the Most Holy Theotokos. Moreover, simply by giving a ring to decorate Her icon. They donated a ring - and thank God! Do not forget to turn to the Mother of God with a prayer yourself. You are free to do whatever you want with your dress.

Priest Alexander Gumerov

Hello, father, bless. My question is: is it possible to sell the wedding dress in which I got married in the church?

Olga

There are no church prescriptions and rules on this matter, and throw away superstitions and forget about them. Another thing is that for most women a wedding dress is a symbol of new life, purity of thoughts and desires, joy and love, which many seek to keep as a memory of a joyful event. I hope this desire of yours is not dictated by something negative in your relationship with your spouse, and you are not going to get a divorce and scatter in different directions? Or do you plan to solve your financial difficulties in this way? In any case, think before you carry out the plan, and I would advise you better save it, remembering one of the happiest days in your life when you look at it.

Priest Alexander Babushkin

Father bless! I have a question. Modern fashion is focused on immoral clothing. In this regard, I have difficulty in acquiring skirts and dresses of a decent length in the market (I live in the countryside). I like Muslim clothes, long dresses, skirts. Can an Orthodox Christian buy and wear Muslim clothes?

Elena

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The Lord bless you!

I do not quite understand what you mean by the term "Muslim clothes"? After all, not every sewn by the hands of Muslims is ritual, which is directly related to the religiosity of a person. Yes, in general, Tatar, Uzbek clothing is brighter than Russian, but it does not imply unambiguously wearing, for example, a veil. Of course, it is impossible for an Orthodox woman to wear clothes that are directly associated with Islam (hijab, etc.). But, I think, most likely, the question is not worth it. You just have to work hard to choose one that suits your taste or, as has been customary for centuries, to sew by yourself, not only for yourself, but for the whole family. After all, the supposedly universal tradition of buying ready-made clothes has existed for no more than 50 years. And in rural life, little has changed over the years. Unless people ... Well, it's time to learn at least to a small extent what our ancestors were fluent in - sewing, knitting, cooking, in general - housekeeping. Very soon, when the neighbors will only eat products with the Doshirak brand and wear tasteless clothes of popular brands, your children will learn from you and rejoice: “Mom can do everything!” God help you.

Archpriest Elijah Shapiro

Good afternoon, I am writing to you for the second time and I really want to get an answer. Please tell me why the church is not open late in the evening, why it is impossible to come to the temple at night and pray, why people are not allowed to go there, it turns out that it is almost impossible to talk with the priest, because he can only do this in the presence of other people ... And more one question - I will soon have a baby, and we plan to have a wedding on April 21, immediately after the end of Lent, without a wedding yet, and my grandmother alone advised me not to play a wedding until the radonitsa, she says you will not live yourself, nor will your children have a life , although they knew all their lives that weddings were played on the red hill ... and how does the church feel about pregnant women wearing a white dress and veil, are there any prohibitions in this area? Thanks in advance for your reply, I really hope you can help me...
2. I'm sorry, but I have one more question - I was baptized under one name, and then for security reasons, apparently, I was baptized a second time, the church said that I had never been baptized, but the name on the passport remained the same, now the question is - will such a sin affect me? I was little when this procedure was performed and didn’t quite understand, and now I don’t even know by what name to put a candle for my health, in the end I put two, for two names, but that’s not right ... what to do?

Inna

Hello Inna, sorry for the delay in replying. Churches are usually open from morning to evening service. There is no such practice for the church to be open all day long. Even in the monasteries where the monks live and it seems like they don’t need to go home, the church is closed after the evening service. But this does not mean that God ceases to hear our prayers - you can pray anytime and anywhere. As for the wedding, I think you may well meet halfway, because the white color is not only a symbol of virginity, but also joy. As for the date of the wedding, you are right - they traditionally get married already, starting with St. Thomas Week (or "Red Hill"), but you can also postpone the wedding for one or two weeks. Now about Baptism. Of course, being baptized twice is unacceptable, but let's leave it to the conscience of those who did this to you out of some superstitious considerations. By our actions we do not force God to give us the grace of Baptism a second time. I am sure that what happened will not affect you in any way. So you can read both saints and, accordingly, pray to them and light candles, but you need to use the name that was given to you at Baptism for the first time.

Deacon Elijah Kokin

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A modern girl is allowed to appear at a celebration on the occasion of marriage in any color and style. So, short dresses above the knees are becoming increasingly popular during the warm season, and the classic white color is losing ground, giving way to unusual shades of wedding dresses - purple, red and even black. These options will decorate the girl at the ceremony at the registry office, but if the bride wants to marry her betrothed, she will have to follow certain rules. Wedding dresses should emphasize the purity and innocence of the girl.

Wedding dress in the Orthodox Church with a photo

The Orthodox wedding ceremony is an ancient tradition that requires compliance with the rules regarding the dress and image of the bride as a whole.

  • The dress for the wedding ceremony should not be open. Open shoulders, arms, neckline, cutouts on the legs, and even more so a bare back are not suitable for the temple. Closed wedding dresses with sleeves will look best. However, if a girl buys only one dress for all events of the wedding day, and you don’t want to wear the closed version during the entire celebration, you can cover your open shoulders with a lace bolero, jacket, scarf or long veil, and put gloves on your hands.
  • The length of the wedding dress should be below the knee. If a girl wants to show her beautiful legs, she will have to buy two dresses or purchase a convenient version of a transforming dress with a detachable skirt.

  • The bride can choose any dress material for a traditional wedding - shiny satin, openwork lace, light chiffon, however, an outfit lavishly decorated with beads and rhinestones will not look organic. This does not mean that the dress cannot be decorated at all - other decorative elements will come into play here, for example, embroidery, a little pearls, non-fluffy draperies.
  • A fluffy dress looks beautiful, but during a wedding, a straight or slightly flared model is more appropriate. Rings that add volume to the skirt should be discarded, as this is simply inconvenient.
  • A train is a part of the attire that gives the dress a majestic look, but during the procedure of the sacrament of an Orthodox wedding, it will look out of place. The train is suitable exclusively for the Catholic rite. If you definitely want a dress with a train tail, you can look at those models where the train is fastened.
  • A headdress is an obligatory attribute of a wedding. To cover your head, a long elegant veil, an embroidered or lace scarf will do. A hat is also allowed during the ceremony, but it is inconvenient from the point of view that the crowns that the witnesses or the priest will hold over the heads of future spouses may touch it.

  • Hairstyle should not be pretentious, too voluminous and complex. Modestly collected hair or a cute malvinka will do.
  • A wedding is an occasion to wear smooth, unadorned shoes with medium or low heels, because standing on stilettos for the entire ceremony is a real test for women's legs.
  • Bright shades of makeup look as wild in the church as a miniskirt, so give preference to calm, delicate nude makeup. Emphasis on red or burgundy lipstick is unacceptable, it should be pale pink, flesh-colored or absent altogether. Lipstick can easily replace golden lip gloss.
  • The pectoral cross is an important part of the wedding look, but it is better to hide it under clothes.

Watch a beautiful video illustrating in detail the sacrament of the wedding:

Traditional styles

The traditional style of a wedding dress provides for a straight or A-silhouette, a not too voluminous skirt, a closed back, and shoulders. The model must demonstrate the modesty of the bride, meet church requirements.

Sleeves

Elegant wedding dress with sleeves looks elegant and restrained. Types of sleeves can be of different lengths and shapes - a bell, a tight-fitting lace or satin sleeve, flared models. Please note that with a short sleeve-roof, wearing gloves is mandatory.

Closed

Closed dresses are suitable for real prudes who take the wedding ceremony seriously. A model that hides the chest, back, arms and neck is the best fit for a church sacrament.

Lacy

Lace dresses emphasize the delicate, fragile nature of the bride. A girl who chooses a dress for her wedding, decorated with lace, will not fail, because this material looks elegant, rich and does not require other additional decorations. The outfit can be completely trimmed with openwork fabric or partially decorated with it. For example, the hem, sleeves, and bodice decorated with lace look beautiful.

Simple

Simple, minimalist dresses are perfect as wedding dresses. These models can be chosen by girls who do not plan serious financial investments. Minimalism, modesty, simplicity of the outfit without decoration will emphasize the beauty of the face and spirituality of the bride.

For pregnant

Girls who get married during pregnancy need to pay attention to the silhouette. If the bride is in her first months, the tummy can be hidden with an elegant A-line dress. The Greek model with a high waist and a flared skirt is also suitable for the initial weeks of the term, but if the fact of pregnancy becomes clear, it will perfectly decorate rounded shapes.

According to church canons, only an innocent girl can wear white, so pregnant brides need to look at other light colors of wedding dresses.

For full

The dress model for full girls should be chosen carefully, based on the features of the figure. Greek dress - as in the case of pregnancy - will help to hide any figure flaws, and the popular A-line will balance the massive top with the narrow hips of a triangular figure. Those who have an hourglass figure should pay attention to the fish style, which is suitable only for proportional forms. A pear-shaped body type will adorn a dress that expands from the waist - it will hide full hips.

For the elderly

For older ladies who decide to get married, dresses are suitable that will hide the flaws in appearance that appear in adulthood. Women who want to hide age-related changes - uneven skin, age spots - should pay attention to closed elegant dresses, light capes. It is better to choose a color not white, against which all imperfections become apparent, but golden, cream, beige.

Color

Modern brides often prefer dark unusual shades, but the wedding procedure allows for exceptionally light delicate colors - creamy, cream, blue, light pink, ivory.

White

A white outfit is a classic of the sacrament of the church, so the girl who chooses such a vestment will not be mistaken. In addition to the symbolic meaning of white, it is also unusually beautiful in combination with tanned skin: brides who have already managed to go on vacation and get a bronze skin tone will be able to get an additional bonus from choosing such a dress.

blue

A light blue dress for a wedding ceremony will suit a dreamy nature. The choice of this color should be approached with caution by brides with an autumn color type. See photos of blue wedding models below.

Other options

The church allows various options for color schemes of the outfit, but the main thing is that they be of a light shade. The choice of colors of dresses is huge, and this allows each girl to choose the right shade for her skin type.

Where to buy and prices

In order not to miscalculate, it is better to buy a dress in a special salon, where you can find a suitable style, try on different shades. After the purchase, specialized stores offer to sew in an outfit according to the figure for free. The price of a wedding model depends on many factors: the complexity of the finish, embroidery, the number of draperies, material, cut.

A simple satin dress without a straight cut trim can be bought cheaply, unlike a model decorated with lace and embroidery with draperies. Each girl will find an outfit that she can afford. The cost of a wedding dress starts from 6-8 thousand rubles, but the upper limit can be any, because everything here depends on the wishes of the bride and the state of the wallet of her parents or groom.

Every year more and more couples in love strengthen their union not only in the registry office, but also in the church, which, in turn, requires. Among them, of course, is the appearance of the bride. From our material you will learn what a dress for a wedding in an Orthodox Church should be like, its features, color and accessories suitable for it.

Which outfit is not allowed

  • Too bright colors - orange, blue, green, red, fuchsia and others, as well as black, which in the walls of the church will look more like mourning;
  • artsy;
  • with a lot of decor;
  • very luxurious and pretentious;
  • with an incredibly long train, because behind you there will be witnesses holding crowns throughout the ceremony, and they may accidentally step on your chic detail;
  • overly sexy - deep cleavage, completely open arms, bare shoulders, back and knees are prohibited.

The length of the hem can be short, but in moderation. Midi options ending at knee level or cocktail options in the calf area are perfect.

Of course, jeans, trousers, tops, T-shirts, and even more completely transparent, shiny and too tight dresses and miniskirts are not allowed for the Sacrament of this rite.

Suitable styles

The style of the product can be almost any, the main thing is that it harmoniously sits on the girl and complies with Orthodox standards.

Laconic straight dresses

The semi-adjacent bottom is perfect for the sacrament of wedding for a newlywed with a proportional figure, of any age and height. The maxi option will hide the flaws, and the shortened “Case” model, ending below the knees or in the calf area, will perfectly visually lengthen you.

It is great to choose an outfit with a lace top, sleeves or collar.

Restrained "A-silhouette"

His skirt gradually expands downward, which means that it will easily hide figure flaws, for example, too voluminous hips.

Of the decorated elements, delicate lace, interesting embroidery and pearls fit perfectly into the style in question.

Transformer

Advice. A wonderful solution for those who have a wedding and registration on the same day.

A short accessory will not work, as well as a bright color and with a lot of jewelry. And be extremely careful with the multi-layer model, because there will be lighted candles around you.

Cape

Instead, it is appropriate to wear a beautiful scarf made of lace, tulle or tulle. By the way, in a modern salon you can find interesting solutions in the form of a bolero or a cloak that will cover not only the head, but also the shoulders, and arms, and the back, and chest. Just what you need for the Sacrament.

Stole

If your wedding item is chaste and everything is covered, then a light stole is quite suitable for you, which will cover only your head and hair. The fabric for its tailoring is the same as for capes.

Makeup

Catchy accents are unacceptable both on the eyes and on the lips. Unobtrusive nude and transparent shine will perfectly fit into the image.

Remember, during the sacred Sacrament, the priest will kiss the crucifix and the icon, and you can accidentally leave traces of cosmetics on these sacred things, which is not very good. And some clergyman, seeing your bright lipstick, will not let you perform an important part of the ceremony at all.

Jewelry

Many accessories in this case are superfluous. Firstly, on the neck it will still be difficult to see them under a cape, shawl or closed dress style. And secondly, on the hands of the main decoration on such a day should be a wedding ring.

If you want some kind of jewelry, then it is recommended to limit yourself to a thin pearl thread or a chain with a small pendant and small earrings, you can use stones.

According to the canons of the Orthodox Church, when entering a church, you must wear a cross.

Shoes

Your pair of shoes should be as comfortable as possible, because during the ceremony you will need to stand for a long time, so put the hairpin and high heel immediately aside. Shoes on a low wedge or classic pumps are ideal. In cool weather, it is appropriate to put on ankle boots or ankle boots.

Choose a neutral calm shade, because shoes, like an outfit, should not be pretentious, bright, dark and with catchy decor.

  1. Modest and elegant this is how you should look first of all at the wedding.
  2. The temple needs stay with covered head, a long veil, tippet or hood from a cape will come to the rescue.
  3. Make sure your wedding the product covered from prying eyes shoulders, décolleté, knees and back.
  4. If your wedding in the registry office and the ceremony are scheduled on the same day and you want to wear an open outfit, then be sure throw over the dress a cape made of light material, a lace bolero or a scarf.
  5. Combine very short sleeves gloves that looks sophisticated and harmonious.
  6. Too much long train, attracting attention, looks pretentious and expensive, which unacceptable for church practices. In addition, such a hem is relevant for Catholics, so leave a chic element for celebrating a wedding or unfasten it before entering the temple.

Folk signs about a wedding dress

The Orthodox Church does not approve of superstition and considers it a sin. How you feel about them is a purely personal decision.

  • The outfit must be brand new. And even the girl herself can try it on only once, when buying;
  • some detail to the dress must be borrowed. For example, a satin ribbon, a brooch, pearls or something else at your discretion. This means that if trouble comes, relatives and friends will help you and your husband overcome difficult moments;
  • never and under no circumstances let anyone try on your attire for the Sacrament, otherwise they will “try on” your happiness;
  • the longer the skirt and veil, the longer the happy family life will last;
  • gold details on a wedding item - to a successful and rich life in marriage;
  • the stronger the fabric, the closer and dearer the relationship between the daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law will be;
  • do not choose separate options, for example, where the skirt and corset are sewn separately from each other. Otherwise, your union may split into two halves and discord will occur in the family;
  • the groom should not see his beloved in a wedding dress before the ceremony, and even more so pick it up with the bride;
  • after the ceremony, you need to carefully store the outfit and not let anyone touch it. You can neither wear it yourself again, nor sell it, nor throw it away, because this is your talisman for a prosperous family life and protection from the evil eye.

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